Here’s the great sexual dilemma: the average time a man can last in bed is far less time than the average time it takes a woman to have a vaginal orgasm. For clarity, I am talking about penetrative vaginal sex from the time a man inserts his penis into the vagina to the time he ejaculates. Almost every man secretly wishes he could not only last longer in bed but last way longer in bed.
Although there are a few exceptions, most men really want to satisfy the women they are sexually intimate with. It makes them feel like more of a man to hear their female partner scream with delight and quiver with an intense vaginal orgasm. However, the sad truth of the situation is that more than 70% of all sexually active women have NEVER had a vaginal orgasm.
There are two primary reasons the majority of sexually active women have never had a vaginal orgasm:
First, some men simply don’t have a big enough penis to fully stimulate the nerve endings lining the vagina and build up enough suction to stimulate the inner reaches of the vagina. For most women, it takes at least an average length penis, and for many, on the higher end of average or even larger, to achieve a vaginal orgasm. This is why women are so drawn to men with big ones.
Second, and this is true in the vast majority of men out there, men simply don’t last long enough in bed. Almost all men learn how to get aroused fast and how to get off fast when they do as teenage boys. This usually involves masturbation behind closed doors while trying to make sure they don’t get caught. In this process, their bodies become accustomed to coming sooner rather than later. Later on, when these boys start having sex with women, they don’t re-learn these habits and they never learn how to last longer in bed. Moreover, they never learn how to last long enough in bed to fully satisfy their female partners.
So, this is the sad state of affairs we have. Men who can’t last long enough who are frustrated because their female sex partners are equally frustrated because they aren’t able to achieve vaginal orgasm. Vaginal orgasms are, of course, the most intense and the most desirable of all the types of female orgasm. Equally bad is the fact that these men never get to enjoy what sex could be like if they could prolong that incredible feeling several times over and feel a vagina clamp down on, pulsate on, and create incredible suction on their penis for several minutes while wave after wave of vaginal orgasm takes place. I’ve had lots of discussions with women and men on this subject. I think couples who achieve this are much happier overall in all aspects of their life than those couples who never achieve this incredible experience.