In this article, I will show you how to last longer in bed for men and how to add extra 60 minutes straight away to your lovemaking session. I know this sounds like an exaggerated statement to say that you can last 60 minutes longer just by reading this article. What I’m offering here is a change of perspective. It is effective if you’ve never thought about sex this way and if you tend to take less than 15 minutes for an entire lovemaking session on average.
So, you wonder. “How can I last longer in bed?” Let me ask you a question. What exactly do you mean by “lasting longer in bed”?
My guess is this. What you have in mind is a time period from the point when you insert your penis into your lover and the point when you ejaculate. You want to increase the amount of time you stay inside your lover, and that’s what you mean by “lasting longer in bed”.
It is possible to increase your sexual stamina in this sense if you train properly. You can learn to last 60 minutes longer. But you do need to make some commitment to it and I can’t make you last 60 minutes longer via this article alone.
What I can do, however, is to ask you to look at the idea of “lasting longer in bed” from a broader perspective. Think about an entire lovemaking session rather than how long you stay inside in your lover. So, from this perspective, “lasting longer in bed” is about how much you spend time with your partner in bed.
So, if you want to last 60 minutes longer in bed from today in this sense, you can easily do it by spending more time on foreplay and afterplay.
One great way to spend more time on these activities is to do things slowly. For example, take her clothes off one by one. Kiss her lips. Around her neck. Her collar bones. Then you can slowly move down to her breasts. Don’t jump straight onto her nipple, but you can slowly move your tongue towards it. Imagine how a snail moves. You can make it that slow.
When you do things slowly, it’s very teasing and sensual. Also, you will be able to spend more time in bed!
But let us not forget that our mission as a man is to give the greatest pleasure to women while having fun. If you take more time and give her a clitoral orgasm or two from oral sex, then the intercourse part of sex can be much more pleasurable to both her and you as well no matter how long you last in this part (again, you don’t need to rush while inside her as well. Take your time!).
To summarize my points quickly, here’s what I covered in this article.
- There are two ways to understand the idea of lasting longer in bed.
- One way is to consider it as the amount of time you stay inside your partner.
- You can learn to last longer in this sense as well, but you need some commitment to learn this.
- The other way is to consider it as a whole lovemaking session.
- You can spend more time in bed and last longer from today in this sense.
- A great way is to do things slowly, because it makes them more sensual and pleasurable.
- After all, sex is a whole package of foreplay, intercourse and afterplay. Be a man who can give the greatest pleasure to his woman.